Monthly Archive January 2019



“Coming from a third world country and discovering that you have a sexual orientation that requires you to love an individual of the same sex is very depressing,” says 23-year-old Rose. Rose describes herself as a queer feminist. She informs me that she is a lesbian but she uses the term queer because she finds it fancy. She loves the mysterious tone that the term ‘queer’ brings to her sexuality. Rose has always found women to be extremely attractive since she was in primary school.



Raised by a single mother, the first born in a family of four found it very difficult to confide in any of her family members for fear of judgment. “My mom is a Christian and she is against same-sex relationships.” She explains that her mom who is deep into religion thinks that same sex relationships are unnatural and are an influence of the west. She describes her sexuality as very conflicting to her in her earlier years. “Growing up in the slums I never saw, met or interacted with a homosexual. This was very new to me. “


She says that it would be a lot easier for her to come out of the closet, had she been born into a well off family. Her opinion is that people from affluent backgrounds are more exposed and more liberal because they travel a lot, meet different people and this expands their thinking. “It is very hard being born in the ghetto, poor and having a different sexual Orientation,” she reiterates. She explains that most people in the ghetto set up are deep in religion and most religions in Africa are still finding it hard to accept same-sex relationships.


Her greatest fear is her mom finding out that she is a lesbian because it would break her heart and she might disown her. She plans to tell her in future once she is financially stable and can fully support herself in the event she kicks her out.



While she was conflicted and trying to fully understand whether she was a lesbian or it was just a phase she was going through, she decided to have relationships with men. “I have actually dated lots of men” Rose says amusingly “It sounds weird right?” she adds.  She thought that establishing relationships with men would take away the attraction she had for girls. “I hated dating men. I did not like it at all.” she explains.

As much as she has had very successful romantic relationships with fellow queers, she has also been a victim of heterosexuals trying to experiment with her. She says that they at times dupe her pretending to be gay, just to have a feel of what it is like being romantically involved with another female. Once she is deep into the relationship and invested her emotions, she realizes that the individual is not queer instead is out to fulfill a certain fantasy. These encounters do leave her feeling used.



“Being gay in Kenya and Africa as a whole is like a death sentence,” she explains. She cannot count the number of times she was physically or verbally abused for being a lesbian. “The abuse came from all quarters from friends to strangers and even online”


She once got in trouble in high school for telling another girl she was beautiful. “I was taken to the principal who later punished me for promoting lesbianism in school. She described lesbianism as satanic.” she adds. Rose thinks that the African society is very intolerant when it comes to same-sex relationships.


Before she fully understood her situation and even got help she slipped into depression and even resorted to self harming. This frustration made her contemplate suicide multiple times. “I pray and hope my siblings are not queer.” she says sadly. She does not want them to go through the physical and emotional abuse she has had to endure from homophobes because of her sexual orientation.


She is very outspoken about injustices against gay people. Her main aim is to sensitize Africa about same sex relationships and remind homophobes that gay people are human beings too. The university student credits Facebook and internet for helping her accept her lesbian status. She managed to befriend people with similar sexual orientation as her and even joined queer groups on social media. This is when her journey to self discovery began. These interactions helped her to fully understand exactly what was going on with her. Why she was attracted to fellow women unlike her peers who were attracted to men.


Together with like minded friends, they normally start conversations on social media and even in public forums aimed at sensitizing the public on matters related to same sex relationships. “I don’t think people hate gays in Kenya or Africa, I just think people tend to criticize what they do not understand.” I think the lack of knowledge about homosexuality comes off as hate and in the real sense it is ignorance. “I have managed to talk to my friends and even strangers on same sex relationships and with time we are getting a breakthrough,” she explains


There is a common misconception that homosexuality is an influence of the west something that she refutes and says that it is inborn. Having been raised in a slum set up, she rarely got access to ‘western culture’ because even owning a Television set was a luxury to them.


“I am tired of telling people to accept and love same sex relationships. I am tired of telling people that queers are just human beings like other people. They can go fuck themselves.” she concludes.


She wishes the world could be more tolerant to queers. The Kenyan government should put laws and policies in place to protect people in same-sex relationships against violations and violence. She adds that the police are always selective and adamant to protect gays when they are violated because of homophobia. They feel they deserve the violations. “Gay rights are human rights,” she concludes.


*Rose is not her real name. She requested anonymity for fear that her mum might bump into the article.



by Aluoch Oito


GALCK Is Hiring!

Opportunity: Finance Officer


Accepting Applications from 29th January 2019 – 15th February 2019

Location: Nairobi


The Gay and Lesbian Coalition of Kenya (GALCK) is the national umbrella body for 16 organizations advocating for sexual orientation gender identity and expression (SOGIE) issues in Kenya. Together, we envision a safe and enabling environment for SOGIE organizations and individuals.

GALCK is looking for a self-motivated individual to join the Secretariat. Reporting to the Executive Coordinator, the Finance Officer will oversee the management of GALCK’s financial resources by effectively monitoring the utilization of resources through structured systems and programs that ensure compliance with GALCK’s policies and procedures, donor partner requirements, statutory requirements and International Accounting Standards and best practices of financial management.


Specific duties:


Financial Accounting and Management

  • Ensure all accounting data is coded and processed to the general ledger and that there is always a system in place that cause the production of timely and accurate reports for financial accounting at GALCK.
  • Ensure the preparation of monthly financial and management accounts.
  • Support staff in the preparation of budgets and share financial reports with program and operations staff at specified times in order to inform their spending and absorption rates.
  • Ensure effective and efficient management of GALCK’s bank accounts.
  • Ensure preparation of quarterly financial reports.
  • Ensure adherence to internal and external financial policies.
  • Assist management in monitoring the annual budget.
  • Ensure the recording and tracking of fixed assets including provision for depreciation for year-end processes.
  • Ensure that GALCK’s annual audit and any other organisational audits are carried out successfully.


Management of payment processes.

  • Supervise preparation of requests for quotations and purchase orders by reviewing requests made and purchase orders issued to ensure they adhere to GALCK’s Finance and Procurement policy.
  • Supervise processing of payments by reviewing payment requests and vouchers to ensure correct budget and donor allocations, accuracy, completeness and clear audit trail.
  • Together with the Operations Officer, ensure the payroll is prepared and statutory and other payroll deductions are remitted to relevant authorities in a timely manner.
  • Ensure any floats are accounted for in a timely manner in terms of activities undertaken and the respective financial outlays.


Fundraising and Management of Donor Funds

  • Work with the EC to prepare GALCK’s annual organizational budget and chart out the funding sources.
  • Prepare budgets as necessary and assist and provide the information required to the EC for purposes of budget preparation and fundraising.
  • In compliance with donor requirements, ensure that appropriate financial procedures and standards are implemented and monitored in the organization.
  • Track expenditure against budgets to ensure that donor funds are spent in accordance to the signed donor contracts.


Person Requirements:

  • A Bachelor’s degree or higher in either Finance, Commerce, Business Administration or any related field.
  • Professional qualifications in Accounting and Financial Management such as Certified Public Accountant (CPA)
  • At least three years’ demonstrable experience in working in a finance department.
  • Demonstrated knowledge of and commitment to human rights and social justice, particularly knowledge and experience of LGBTIQ rights.
  • Familiarity with grants management and administration would be desirable.
  • Demonstrable experience in resource mobilisation and donor reporting.
  • Strong organisational and management skills with attention to detail.
  • Sensitivity, flexibility, and ability to communicate clearly and effectively with people from diverse cultures and backgrounds.
  • Demonstrable analytic and strategic thinking skills.


Terms and conditions:

This position is long-term with compensation that is negotiable and commensurate with level of experience and expertise. GALCK is an equal opportunity employer and does not discriminate on any basis.

To apply please submit:

  • A cover letter describing why you are interested in the position and why you are the ideal candidate for this position.
  • Your CV.
  • Details of current salary or salary expectations.


Send your application documents to with Finance Officer as subject heading. Only shortlisted candidates will be contacted.